"alin (not real name,cheh macam bagus), k.fiza ni...apa khabar?"
"oh,, akak..kejap ye."
from the sound, i learned that she is moving away from her workstation, maybe this is not the right time, i meant what was i thinking calling her during this hour, but i was told not to call her at home, which was giving me no choice.
A minures after, she get back to me.. (she was already somewhere better to chat, i guess) and the conversation started checking out her new workplace's environment. Flawlessly, i ask 'the' question.. then the serious part began...
She told me everything.. "i always knew he close to her, but never expect they falling into each other".. "i was just trying to be positive on their relationship, but my ignorance was trapping me back". "i just didn't know what to do, and now it was all too late,kak". "they are planning for their 'moon and stars', and the girl insist hubby to divorce me." yup, her hubby is having an affair, to be specific 'cinta satu pejabat'.
She was all sobbing while blaming herself for no reasoans and i was not helping at all neither, because i kept emotionally cursing the couple. Being me, always talking my heart out instead of the brain,erkk. Yeah right, i make it worst the situation. what a 'great' councellor i can be?
How could he? I meant the couple (alin n hubby) had been through hell a lots, togather, few years as a love birds before getting married to each other, first daughter passed away before delivery, and they just got their 2nd few months back.
kesian kat anak.. ya, allah.. besarnya dugaan dia at the age of 28? pernah pantang sendiri tanpa baby and now dah ada anak.. husband terkinja-kinja kejar pompuan. After all this hassles, suddenly she is no longer your soulmates,huh?
actually, i didn't have any good advice for her... this was my third time witnessing myself this 'cinta satu pejabat' ni. First, while i was just a freshie back then at Ipoh. The husband, which was my superior decided to divorce his wife to marry our collegue, just like that. Second, while working few years back, but this time was a little bit better (is it ok to classify like that?) the hubby decided to do polygamy.
i guess the long period, 8-10 hours a day while in the office, 5 days a week with limited annual leaves, able to lead with such situations. Yet still, it is not acceptable to me. Na'uzubillah.
I pray my best for her.. Nothing much to help, except doa yang terbaik untuk mereka. Guys, please think about your newborn before making any decision, isthikarah lah wahai si lelaki.. siapakah "Hawa" yang Allah sedia kan untukmu?
This is so random entry, but i just found out myself waking up in the middle of the night, thinking about her.
I mailed this to her today.. hopefully, sedikit sebanyak membantu.. thought to share it here..
(sorry,just letak terjemahan je.. sbb dah konfius cemana nak copy masuk blog ayay quran ni, asik tak jadi je,, saya budak baru belajar)
AYAT KETIKA STRESS/ TAMBAHKAN KESABARAN (SURAH AL-IMARAN;AYAT 200)
Wahai orang-orang yang beriman! Bersabarlah kamu (menghadapi segala kesukaran dalam mengerjakan perkara-perkara yang berkebajikan), dan kuatkanlah kesabaran kamu lebih daripada kesabaran musuh, di medan perjuangan), dan bersedialah (dengan kekuatan pertahanan di daerah-daerah sempadan) serta bertaqwalah kamu kepada Allah supaya, kamu berjaya (mencapai kemenangan).SURAH AL-IMRAN;AYAT 173
Mereka juga ialah yang diberitahu oleh orang-orang (pembawa berita) kepada mereka: "Bahawa kaum (kafir musyrik) telah mengumpulkan tentera untuk memerangi kamu, oleh itu hendaklah kamu gerun kepadanya". Maka berita itu makin menambahkan iman mereka lalu berkata: "Cukuplah Allah untuk (menolong) kami, dan Ia sebaik-baik pengurus (yang terserah kepadaNya segala urusan kami)".
UTK MELEMBUTKAN HATI SUAMI..
BACA 7X MASA SUAMI TIDUR DAN TIUP PADA UBUN2NYA
SURAH AS-SYURA –AYAT 19
Allah Maha Lembut tadbirNya (serta melimpah-limpah kebaikan dan belas kasihanNya) kepada hamba-hambaNya; Ia memberi rezeki kepada sesiapa yang dikehendakiNya (menurut peraturan yang telah ditetapkan), dan Dia lah Yang Maha Kuat, lagi Maha Kuasa.
Ayat ni supaya orang suka dan sayang pada kita.
SURAH MARYAM AYAT 96
Sesungguhnya orang-orang yang beriman dan beramal soleh, Allah yang melimpah-limpah rahmatnya akan menanamkan bagi mereka dalam hati orang ramai perasaan kasih sayang
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